Ryssa Chrysalis
My blogs
Blogs I follow
| Gender | Female |
|---|---|
| Occupation | policy wonk |
| Location | somewhere in Denver, Colorado |
| Introduction | In my 40s. 20+ years of living with women; now I'm playing with men and women. Guess that means I'm bi {wink}. Polyamorous. Very kinky. Submissively kinky. Masochistic and kinky. Crave power exchange but on my terms. Sex positive in that I won't think any act that brings sexual gratification between consenting adults is something bad, evil, or wrong. That being said, just because I'm sex positive and bisexual doesn't mean I will sleep with you. I'm just plain picky. I know darn good and well I'm a handful as well as a pain in the ass. And I'm busy with a job and love. I'm smart. Really smart. I don't care if my partners are as smart or smarter than me. I just want people to be able to keep up with me and not let me run over them. I just might, you know. I lost a bunch of weight after gastric bypass and that really messes with my brain when people react to me as if I'm attractive. Of course I'm body conscious. I'm also sensual and sexual. And confused at how I turned into Ms. Popularity. This blog is a lot of me writing out what I'm thinking. Sometimes it's formal writing, sometimes just stream of consciousness. Favorite quote: "Plan? What plan? I'm making this up as I go along." |
| Interests | Reading, singing, friends, polyamory, sex, paganism, law, social policy; talking geek |
| Favorite movies | When Harry Met Sally, Jumpin Jack Flash, Burglar, Steel Magnolias, 9 1/2 Weeks, Donnie Darko, Underworld (not for the plot, just they eye candy), Young Frankenstein, Monty Python (all), The Fifth Element, Victor/Victoria, Bound |
| Favorite music | Depeche Mode, 80s New Wave, Trance, Fall Out Boy, Nine Inch Nails, AFI, Concrete Blonde, Linkin Park, Rise Against, Flobots, Breaking Benjamin, Pixies, Pogues, The Clash, alternative and indie alternative music |
| Favorite books | Anything by Dan Brown, The Ethical Slut, The New Bottoming Book, The Good Girl's Guide to Bad Girl Sex, chick lit, anything by Michael Critchton, anything by Christopher Moore, Laurell K. Hamilton (all), Kim Harrison, Charlaine Harris, MaryJanice Davidson, Jim Butcher |
The hair from your last haircut ... what would it say about your new style?
That I like it and generally keep it. I just keep trimming it to maintain its shape and style (and get rid of the fried split ends)