About me

Location	Waipu, Northland, New Zealand
Introduction	For half a century I lived from a fixed; ‘this is how you do it’. I did what was expected of me. In the second half of my life, I live from; ‘is there another way to do this?’ and I do what I love. I am a career counselor by trade . . . I’ve seen enough to know that the question; ‘is there another way to do this?’ is a valid one. Many times the obvious road didn’t work for people; it didn’t get them there, they were actually looking for another way! So here I am, over 50. I am seeing my daughters grow up to be beautiful young women, I am divorced, I now have a second relationship that works . . . I have grown to love this question ‘is there another way to do this?’ so much. It is opening up whole new worlds for me. If you want the full story about my journey, Wilmas Blog is the place to go.

Location

Waipu, Northland, New Zealand

Introduction

For half a century I lived from a fixed; ‘this is how you do it’. I did what was expected of me. In the second half of my life, I live from; ‘is there another way to do this?’ and I do what I love. I am a career counselor by trade . . . I’ve seen enough to know that the question; ‘is there another way to do this?’ is a valid one. Many times the obvious road didn’t work for people; it didn’t get them there, they were actually looking for another way! So here I am, over 50. I am seeing my daughters grow up to be beautiful young women, I am divorced, I now have a second relationship that works . . . I have grown to love this question ‘is there another way to do this?’ so much. It is opening up whole new worlds for me. If you want the full story about my journey, Wilmas Blog is the place to go.