Pearl

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Gender Female
Introduction I used to be Toto, but I've changed my blog name to Pearl -an irritant that over time is covered in a lustrous coating and becomes a gem! I grew up in a large, wildly dysfunctional family. When Nfather died, the dysfunction exploded and when Nmother died, all hell broke loose. I have a number of Nsibs, so the fun continues. Learning to step out of my role and be who I am meant to be has been difficult, but it's also been hugely rewarding. And now I have to deal with my personality disordered spouse of 40 years - an attachment disordered husband is not a picnic to live with....