Joseph

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About me

Gender Male
Occupation Primary Caregiver (IHSS)
Location Anaheim, California, United States
Introduction I've been my 93-year-old mother's IHSS caregiver since she first broke her right hip in 2018. Once she's gone, I will be out of a job and lose the last living relative who has ever given a shit about me. I'm 50, I'm totally fucked up myself, and once the bank comes to foreclosure our house, I'll be homeless as well. So I'm screwed to the max, yeah. Sucks to be me. Blame it on my father most of all, because he started this whole fucking nightmare. He and the rest of the world can fuck off. I went from an introverted Catholic kid to an agnostic, an atheist, and a diehard nihilist at present. Humanity is doomed to self-extinction. Primarily an Earth denizen. NYC born, then raised in 70s Cádiz, Spain. A hopeless romantic, I likely belong in the Age of Enlightenment. If pressed for an specific genre, I would say that I gravitate towards movies about people that form unlikely friendships and mutually benefit in the end. But I also like ones where the lead characters go out in a blaze of glory or recover their lost humanity. And I am always a sucker for a romantic ending. Example? The final scene with Jack and Sara in Cocoon: The Return. It is exquisite.
Interests Interests: Women, Music, Singing, Writing, Photography, Nature, Beaches, Poetry, History, Psychology, Cats, Parakeets, Rainy Days, Hot Showers, Kissing, Snuggling, Loving Displays of Affection, Old Films & TV Shows, Comic Books, Action Figures, Science Fiction, Video Games. Foods: Goldfish Crackers, (I'm addicted to the Baby ones) Burgers, French Fries, Pizza, Fast Food, Bananas, Guavas, Garlic, Bacon, Potatoes, Dark Chocolate, Tabasco Sauce, Salmon, Tilapia, Shrimp, Scallops, Seafood, Paella, Spanish, Italian, Pacific Northwest and Vegetarian Cuisine.
Favorite Movies The Good, the Bad, and the Ugly, For a Few Dollars More, A Fistful of Dollars, In the Heat of the Night, Amadeus, Sling Blade, The Treasure of the Sierra Madre, The Best Years of Our Lives, Office Space, Ferris Bueller's Day Off, Things Change, Jaws, (Lumet's) 12 Angry Men, The Shawshank Redemption, Frenzy, White Heat, Beverly Hills Cop, The Wild Bunch, (De Palma's) The Untouchables, (De Palma's) Scarface, (Lautner's) Le Professionnel, (Verhoeven's) Robocop, (Carpenter's) The Thing, F/X, Magnum Force, Enter the Dragon, North by Northwest, Inception, Commando, Predator, Tron, (Milestone's) Ocean's 11, The Bad and the Beautiful, Cronos, the original Star Wars trilogy, (Ichaso's) El Súper, anything with Christina Applegate in it and with hundreds of others that I'm forgetting to mention right now.
Favorite Music Soul, R&B, Rock, Yacht Rock, Disco, Pop, Jazz, Smooth Jazz, Latin, Bossa Nova, New Wave, Easy Listening, Classical. Nowadays, I find myself listening to Soul music more than anything else.
Favorite Books Biographies. History. Politics. Philosophy. Illustration. Photography. Trivia. Graphic Novels. Fantasy. Science Fiction. Books that make me think.