redddenim

About me

Gender Male
Industry Construction
Occupation Residential Renovation
Location DC, United States
Introduction A memory of now..... Being 40 and single has singular hardships and having parents in this state in life makes issues so...palling. I'm French-American living in the Washington DC area and while my parents live in the south of France my brothers reside in Michigan and Texas. Both are married and families of there own. My mother has epilepsy and malaria, my father is in the final stages of terminal heart disease and is house-bound. Being so far away is difficult enough when you are so close to family and even more so when they silently plead for help. My brothers feel since I have no wife/children that the burden of our parents should be put on my shoulders and since I am the eldest that I should have no hesitation what-so-ever. But...I hesitate...because I ache to be in love, to have someone to call my own, to share my life with and to become one with. I tire of the single life...haven't dated in six years - not even kissed someone in all this time let alone have sex. Like I said....I ache...no, I languish for my soul mate.
Interests French Culture, French Cuisine, Asian Culture, Asian Cuisine, Gay, Gay Love, Art, Literature, Swimming, Wind Surfing, Travel, Snorkeling, Beach, Camping, Family, Cancer Research, Horticulture, Botany, Gardening, Remodeling, Renovation, Construction, Building, Meditation, Spiritualism, Eastern Religions