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Introduction	...The 3rd is the charm; well that is what I have joked about. I've been divorced twice before I got it "right" the 3rd time. I don't advocate divorce; but see that divorce is fine in abusive situations and/or extreme situations where the other turned down a path that could destroy your life physically, emotionally, and spiritually. Been there, done that. Divorce sucks, plain and simple. No matter the situation, it sucks. And it affects everyone who cares or loves you, not just you and your significant other. Between my own experience with 2 divorces; as well as seeing the affects of my now stepfamily aka blended family (though I don't have children from a previous marriage). Marriage with stepfamily/blended families are a whole different dynamic and I'll share some information for that spectrum here as well. But, between all that, I have been able to not only dip my toe into the waters of marital resources, I have jumped right into the lake of it all... There are many resources that are there for all of our benefit to enhance our marriages. You are not alone in your journey!

Introduction

...The 3rd is the charm; well that is what I have joked about. I've been divorced twice before I got it "right" the 3rd time. I don't advocate divorce; but see that divorce is fine in abusive situations and/or extreme situations where the other turned down a path that could destroy your life physically, emotionally, and spiritually. Been there, done that. Divorce sucks, plain and simple. No matter the situation, it sucks. And it affects everyone who cares or loves you, not just you and your significant other. Between my own experience with 2 divorces; as well as seeing the affects of my now stepfamily aka blended family (though I don't have children from a previous marriage). Marriage with stepfamily/blended families are a whole different dynamic and I'll share some information for that spectrum here as well. But, between all that, I have been able to not only dip my toe into the waters of marital resources, I have jumped right into the lake of it all... There are many resources that are there for all of our benefit to enhance our marriages. You are not alone in your journey!