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"It Was 2015. They Hated Things."

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Blogger Hamsterboy2k said...

Good stuff. There was just a thing on NPR this weekend about how it is so much easier to spew hatred and bile on the internet than anything worthwhile or uplifting. Too much effort I guess.

Full disclosure: up until about 4 years ago, I would have happily jumped on any one of those opinions, screaming, "Yeah, it sucks!" Then I got involved in Google+ and the OSR community, and it was like seeing things in a whole new light. Not just that I didn't have to hate any edition of D&D I wasn't playing, but that you don't have to hate *anything.* Something not your style? Just keep on moving, looking for the love.

My father used to say "there's a seat for every ass," and it took me 40 years to really understand that. Someone out there really, really loves a game you don't particularly care for, just like someone out there really loves a guy or girl who may not be your speed. You wouldn't bash the guy or girl (particularly to their face), and you shouldn't bash the game.

March 23, 2015 at 1:30 PM

Blogger Unknown said...

Thought I should point out that the Ars Magica one is about a Minecraft mod.

March 23, 2015 at 1:32 PM

Blogger Jeff Heikkinen said...

That was sort of entertaining. It helps my hope for humanity a tiny bit that a few of them were actually somewhat nuanced, like the Rifts one. I wish I could say I was surprised, though, that the most unhinged-sounding one by far was the LotFP one.

March 23, 2015 at 1:45 PM

Blogger Jeff Heikkinen said...

(Other than maybe that bizarre AD&D one, which I agree is probably a parody of other people's criticisms of it than something meant to be taken at face value.)

March 23, 2015 at 1:47 PM

Blogger Zak Sabbath said...

I think it's ok to say you hate a game to someone's face. A game _isn't_ a person with feelings--and a person who identifies so much with a game they can't handle someone saying they hate it needs therapy.

I think, however, that when you say it, you should be wholly honest and wholly rational and wholly-open to questions about why that game doesn't intersect with your interests. The person hating isn't allowed to flip their lid either.

That's how we learn--by meeting people who disagree with the assumptions we came to the table with and _discovering new things_ about how people think and identify.

March 23, 2015 at 2:00 PM

Blogger Zak Sabbath said...

thanks--fixed

March 23, 2015 at 2:00 PM

Blogger Zak Sabbath said...

LotFP people are as often wrong as anyone else, but for some reason LotFP-haters are a bizarre breed of over-the-line self-sabotaging psychopath I've never encountered anywhere else.

It may be because the LotFP itself is so obscure that hating it requires levels of internerd obsessiveness that all-but guarantees a reality-disconnect. Like: angry and savvy enough to know what LotFP is, but still dumb enough to realize they only improve sales by complaining about it.

Or, y'know, people who hate on boobs are just extra-crazy. Which we all already knew.

March 23, 2015 at 2:07 PM

Blogger Matthew Adams said...

"I hate Pendragon because although it's fantasy but it still uses a map of Britain, implying it's history."

This was the point I felt a perverse sense of joy, an almost religious epiphany, a sense that Hey, I might not be smart (and for some reason I really worry about how stupid I am), but I never wrote that...

(and then as the religous fervour dissapated like so much smoke)

...yet

March 23, 2015 at 6:07 PM

Blogger Zak Sabbath said...

The sad thing is that both Gleichmann and Shreyas Sampat (an actual storygamer with actual game credits) have said essentially that and the whole internet did not come to a screeching halt and go "Holy fuck, you need to not be on the internet any more, you are insane"

At least with Gleichman, nobody really listens to him. Shreyas still gets treated like he might have meaningful things to say

March 23, 2015 at 6:59 PM

Blogger JohnnySako said...

I didn't dig very deep, but as far as I can tell no one hates Talislanta. In the grand scheme of things that's about all that matters.

March 23, 2015 at 8:24 PM

Blogger Zak Sabbath said...

Elves do.

March 23, 2015 at 8:26 PM

Blogger BW said...

What struck and confused me about the LotFP comment was the start: "But I hate LOTFP and OSR." It gives the impression that the two are synonymous. And then they have a staff. And promote child pornography. On "their site", whichever that site is.

March 23, 2015 at 11:59 PM

Blogger sapient said...

But we ARE a world wide conspiracy, aren't we? I just assumed we are and my invitation to meeting and such had all gotten lost in the mail, but now I'm disappointed...

March 24, 2015 at 2:18 AM

Blogger Marten said...

That one made me scratch my head in disbelief too. Crazy.

March 24, 2015 at 11:02 PM

Blogger JohnnySako said...

Elves are anemic and weak. Their opinion on anything is jaded by a general millennial malaise. However, I do have it on good authority that said condition can be alleviated through a week long Manowar marathon and copious amounts of cocaine.

March 25, 2015 at 7:54 AM

Blogger Unknown said...

I hate that people get so ridiculously passionate in their hate of certain games. Imagine if that energy were directed to something constructive, like social justice, or environmental clean-up, or whatever relevant cause one cares to support.

There are games I can't be bothered to play, for various reasons. If invited, I'll just say, "sorry, it's not for me."

March 25, 2015 at 4:29 PM

Blogger Purgatus said...

The world is a more pleasant place when you seek to understand what others like about something instead of seeking something about it for you to dislike.

March 26, 2015 at 8:15 AM

Blogger Zak Sabbath said...

I wish that were true, but often seeking to understand what people like about it makes them pissed off.

A thread where I talked to 4e fans about why they liked 4e was the one that made one of the worst trolls I have start attacking me

March 26, 2015 at 10:32 AM

Blogger Dmitry Gerasimov said...

Alien anthropologists will be perplexed to find a purportedly sentient species capable of feeling hatred towards a game.

The last quote is priceless, though.

Also,Haha I think probably saying "I like this magick school but I hate Unknown Armies" is more of an insult than a compliment.

March 27, 2015 at 4:17 PM

Blogger David Given Schwarm said...

Fun example...I like the Bing vs Google contrast that this creates; for example I hate Numenera in Bing gets gets:

If so, why are you bringing it up in the Numenera
thread? Start another thread for whatever you want to
say about EotE. My ... and I hate it in Numenera.

Also, placing the search term in quotes to forces exact phrase ["I hate Numenera" vs I hate Numenera], may have some value....

April 6, 2015 at 5:57 AM

Blogger PlanetNiles said...

Hey Zak! Hey! Hey Zak!
I hate Vornheim. I hate that I bought the PDF and not the dead tree edition and now they're RARER THAN HEN'S TEETH!
Goddamnit. I can't even find the PDF now. *sobs*

April 15, 2015 at 7:37 AM

Blogger PlanetNiles said...

Just to make sure. You do know I'm joking right?

April 15, 2015 at 7:38 AM

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